"He Only Lifted Her Skirt"
Monday morning, Socialist Jack Lang (left), former minister under François Mitterrand, made the following comment about DSK's arrest:
"Not to free a man, when no one has been killed, not to free someone who has paid a large fine, is something that is practically never done."
Another Socialist, Jean-François Kahn, founder of the left-wing publication Marianne, made light of the whole incident:
Here is a rough idea of what he said:
J.-F. Kahn: I am certain, anyway practically certain, that there was no violent attempt to commit rape, I do not believe that. I know this man, and I don't think so. That there was an imprudent action we can't… (hearty laughter), I don't know how to say it, he lifted her skirt ...
A.-G. Slama: He called it an error of judgment (cackles).
J.-F. Kahn: He lifted the skirt of a servant, that's what I mean, it's not right, but, there, it's my impression.
Below, the video:
Again I turn to Yann Baly, for his reaction to these two examples of left-wing nonchalance when confronted with the sexual misdeeds of one of their own. First, he reacts to Jack Lang:
This tendency to put sexual deviations in general, and rape in particular, into a favorable perspective is not at all surprising for someone who, in 1977 when he was dean at the University of Nancy II where he also taught Dominique Strauss-Kahn, signed a petition supporting three persons being judged for acts of pedophilia. Le Monde, on January 26, 1977, published the petition:
"We consider that there is a manifest disproportion between the label of 'crime' that justifies such severity, and the nature of the facts cited; furthermore, between the obsolete character of the law and the daily reality of a society that tends to recognize in children and adolescents the existence of a sex life (if a 13-year-old girl has the right to take the pill, what is it for?), three years in jail for caresses and kisses, that is enough!"
No doubt the deputy from Pas-de-Calais perceives that the American laws on sex crimes are also "obsolete."
There is, in any case, consistency in Jack Lang, that everyone must realize, ever since his years in Nancy. No one can say "I didn't know..."
The other reaction, just as disgusting, comes from Jean-François Kahn, editor of Marianne, who affirmed on television that the act committed by DSK was "lifting the skirts of a servant!" ("troussage de domestique")
The ties that bind Mr. Kahn to Mr. Strauss-Kahn, the former's wife having been a witness at the marriage of the latter to Anne Sinclair, are not enough to explain this crazed and scandalous defense. There is a caste mentality, of people cut off from reality, united by money, luxury and power, that cannot tolerate that one of their own is in trouble.
Equally scandalous is the absence of any reaction from other politicians and journalists to these ignominious remarks.
How different was the witch hunt organized against Bernard Debré, deputy from Paris, who had the courage to say what he thought and what the entire world of politics and media knew about DSK!
Note: the French text does not say "witch hunt" but "curée", which translates as "quarry", i.e., food for bloodhounds.
The caste of rich bobos cannot stand its totalitarian consensualism to be questioned. Honor to Professor Debré!
Note: I was curious about the word "consensualism". We don't use it often in English. It appears to be a synonym of "consensus". Here is the online definition:
Consensus decision-making is a group decision making process that seeks not only the agreement of most participants but also the resolution or mitigation of minority objections. Consensus is defined by Merriam-Webster as, first – general agreement and, second – group solidarity of belief or sentiment. It has its origin in a Latin word meaning literally feel together. It is used to describe both general agreement and the process of getting to such agreement. Consensus decision-making is thus concerned primarily with that process.
French readers may enjoy a text by a blogger called Le Grand Barnum, in which he discusses the various rights and privileges, according to one's sex, in older societies such as Rome, and compares the current Socialist oligarchs to ancient Romans for whom taking advantage of a slave was a not a rape, but ogling the consul's old lady in the shower almost was. The post ends with these thoughts:
(…) But Jean-François Kahn is not a Roman. He is just a French oligarch, an untouchable member of the media system, sure of his place, of his right to say anything, and of the superior finesse of every cliché he utters. And comfortably macho, without even realizing it.
There are no more consuls, no more slaves. Just men and women, powerful and sure of their rights, cackling at every little salacious comment and at the "dominated women whose skirts are lifted". In short, no big deal. It would be a terrible shame if things changed!
Labels: Criminal Responsibility, Culture, DSK, Ethics/Morals, Jack Lang, Jean-François Kahn, Media

19 Comments:
"Lifting her skirt?" I don't think the NYPD and the DA would have hauled DSK off a plane for "skirt-lifting." Do any of these people, these men of the so-called compassionate left, have any compassion for a poor, obscure woman who, if her story is true, was terribly abused by a rich and very powerful man?
I'm of 2 minds here. I do not want to see DSK (a man I do not admire at all) jailed unjustly, and he has not been tried yet. But this snickering, these stupid juvenile jokes about "skirt-lifting" - that is exactly why many honest women do not report rape to the police. They know that their plight will be trivialized, their pain will be mocked, and their reputations will be dragged through the dirt.
This idiot should know that he is only harming the reputation of his country with his stupid statements. He is not establishing Americans as "prudes" but sending a message that rape is not taken seriously in France.
Diane
Oh and this is something you might be interested in: a Australian blogger and novelist named Richard Fernandez, a native-born Filipino who was active in the anti-Marcos movement, wrote about DSK's stay in Riker from a novelists' POV:
"He’s on a suicide watch right now. Prison officials say its precautionary for a guy who goes from the lap of luxury to the pits in the relative blink of an eye. They say he has access to a TV, which might in the end, be a mistake. He’s watching his whole life melt down in front of his eyes.
There are probably a number of phases to the psychology of imprisonment. Maybe the first is “this is a mistake and it will be be sorted out in a few hours”. That phase ended when he was denied bail.
There’s the jail itself. Those I know about have particular smell, a kind of horrible crotch odor only superficially ameliorated by prison soap, which has its own stink. But most of all it vibrates with menace. If you are a tough guy you can always take comfort in the adage: they should look out, here I come. When he walked through the door as saw gate after gate close behind him, what did he think? He probably concentrated on doing exactly what the jailors told him, precisely, courteously. Building a little credit in people who a few hours before he would never have even spoken to on the street.
But when you’re 62 you don’t kid yourself. When that door clangs shut, you know its not going to open until someone, of the type whose ambition in life is to make a career in corrections and looking forward to it, holds your fate in his hands.
So you start making up new dates to focus on. You create little hope points in your mind. The Grand Jury return. The next session in court. You ask the lawyers to bring you news whenever they can. When the phone rings and you’re escorted to the apparatus or to the meeting room, it’s like you’re looking at the code behind a scratchie. Yes, maybe this is it! Strangely, you walk a little taller. “I’m someone,” you seem to want to say to others, “I’m not like you losers who have always been losers and been tossed in here to rot. I’ll get out of this joint. Just see. I’m the Big Time.”
Then you wake up in the night and reach for the phone. But your hand only touches the concrete wall. Oh, right. You’re not in Paris. You’re in Riker’s Island. Then you start to wonder when breakfast will come. Will they have sliders for lunch? Sliders? How on earth are you ever looking forward to greaseburgers? That’s when the terrible despair can kick in. Maybe you find yourself bawling in your cell and all anyone can say is “shut up”. This is what it’s come to. How on earth did it happen?
They say prison can purify the soul. I don’t believe it. Not unless you’re in Siberia, surrounded by miles of taiga and it’s nature that does that to you, not the pokey. Prison is too full of bad spirits to easily cleanse the heart. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen in part.
If DSK ever sees the outside of graybar and puts on his own clothes again he will have changed. Not saying for the better, but he’ll remember Riker’s Island."
Diane
The Democratic Party covers for Obama, just like the Socialists/Liberals cover for DSK. Obama launches a war against Libya and covers for him despite its insanity. Elites everywhere live in a bubbleworld. Time to burst them all.
Oh, and I honestly wish for dauphin's and zazie's opinion on this, because I am being mocked, on another forum, by a Frenchman for being "a puritanical, naive American who expects husbands to be saints."
I ask: are Frenchwomen (and men) really all that blase regarding adultery? I am "puritanical" and "naive," I suppose, for insisting on fidelity.
I make this confession only because I am anonymous on this forum: when in France back in the early '80's, I fell in love, both with the stunningly beautiful country and with an individual Frenchman. He visited me in the US, after my return and we had a very good time. But we were both quite young at the time and I was warned by many friends and relatives: "Don't marry him!A Frenchman will never be a good, faithful husband! He'll cheat on you with the babysitter!" We never married, he returned to Rouen and my guess is that he married a French woman there. I have been torn between thinking I did the wise thing and believing I threw away my chance at true love. I dated other men but I never found anyone I loved as much as I did Christophe. But now I think, would he have betrayed me? Mocked me for being an "American puritan" for being upset at his affairs? He was a kind (and funny) man, so I have a difficult time imagining that. I still don't know if I did a very wise or a very foolish thing by breaking up with him. Since I have returned to the Church (I was a lapsed Catholic for many years), I pray for him nonetheless. I really do hope that he is leading a quietly contented life there in Normandy.
@ anonymous,
I'm sure dauphin and zazie will have something to add, but all I can say is that you must not judge Frenchmen by what has happened to Dominique Strauss-Kahn. He is (or was) a V.I.P. He may be Jewish, but he is not beholden to the Judeo-Christian moral code that prevailed in the West until the sixties, when the culture changed.
There is never any guarantee of fidelity - look at Arnold Schwarzenegger, JFK, Bill Clinton. Even Richard Burton cheated on Elizabeth Taylor - the most beautiful woman in the world! A woman always takes a chance when she marries, but I think famous men are much more likely to indulge in sexual infidelities because it is so easy to get women.
In the case of DSK, we are dealing with a possible serial abuser, not a seducer. It is very unlikely that Christophe would have "slept with the babysitter", but of course, you never know. Have you any way of finding out what happened to him? Have you looked him up online? Sometimes you can find people that way. But if he is married you cannot interfere.
The Frenchman that is mocking you is trying to show off how sophisticated he is and how dumb Americans are. This is an old stale cliche. Don't let yourself be taken in. Tell him that the Puritans were passionate people who learned to restrain their impulses. And DSK could learn something from them.
Try not to obsess about this. What's done is done. Try to make friends among the Catholics at church or at other social venues. Pursue your interests, and remember that it is probably for the best. You did what you had to do at the time with the information you had. Don't look back.
Are you familiar with the movies of Eric Roehmer? They are often about men who are tempted to cheat, but who don't go through with it. Two that I like are "Chloe in the Afternoon" and "My Night At Maud's". They show Frenchmen going through an inner struggle, and in the end, choosing the moral way, simply because it is better.
There is, I think, a gender aspect in Jack Lang's comment that you English speaking readers may not be able to grasp due to its very cryptic nature.
What Lang said was "il n'y a pas mort d'homme", which you perfectly translated as "no one was killed". True. But since « homme » has both a gendered meaning (man as a male) and an abstract one (man as a human being), one may analyze Lang’s comment as something more vicious and macho than a simple reflection on DSK being denied the right to post bail for something that involved no kiling…
All the best,
LGB
And many thanks for the link!
@ LGB
Thank you for the clarification about "mort d'homme". I wasn't sure how to translate it. I sensed there was more to it than a simple phrase. When I don't understand something I do a Google search and try to find examples of the word in various contexts. But I couldn't find anything definite other than what I said in the translation.
On the other hand, it took me several hours and much frustration before I found the meaning of "troussage de domestique" a phrase that is so easy when you know what it is. All over the web the words of J-F Kahn are quoted, but at the online dictionaries "trousser" is only to "truss a chicken". "Troussage" is given as the "action de trousser". Big help. Then I found the article by Grand Barnum, which set me on the right path. THEN, finally I checked my forty-year old Petit Robert and found exactly what I wanted.
Tiberge: I apologize for writing something so personal, I did not mean to turn your comments section into "True Confessions" or "Dear Abby!"
I don't obsess over something that happened more than 25 years ago, and my life is full, but I do think about it from time to time. I realize that plenty of American men (and women) commit adultery as well, particularly wealthy and powerful men. However, it is hard not to think stereotypically about the French when you are engaged in a back and forth with a French man in a comments section who assures you that yes, "everyone" cheats on their wives in France and you are a silly prude if you object. It is because I have great admiration for other aspects of French civilization that I find this particular cultural tendency to treat adultery as a light and amusing hobby that harms nobody so noxious. The jaded ruling class is one thing, but I find it difficult to believe the wives of the butchers, bakers and candlestick makers react to adultery with a little smile and Gallic shrug. However, stereotypes are reinforced because you have idiots like the comments fellow and Jack Lang reinforcing them.
@ anonymous,
Well, I apologize too for turning it into a Dear Abbey column! I think I assumed you were more distraught than you are. But I agree completely about the frustrating experience of being called "puritanical" when we are merely being modest, or when we stand in opposition to patently depraved behavior. When I was in France (long ago) I expressed disapproval of nudity on the beach. I felt women should cover up (partly because it is modest, partly because they look more attractive covered than stark naked). I was always called puritanical. But looking back the people I knew were leftists. At the time, I knew little about politics and I used to wonder about the French. On the one hand I felt they were so much more mature about sex than we, so much more at ease with the needs of both men and women. We, on the other hand, were up tight, straight-laced and hypocritical. I believe there was some truth to this. When the sexual revolution struck America we veered wildly to the opposite extreme - we let it all hang out. The French did not have to because they were not as up tight as we were. But gradually over time, things deteriorated and Socialist policies with their emphasis on unbridled sexuality, deviations, and rights have brought the French down to the point where accept as normal things that they never would have fifty years ago.
Another example. When I was teaching in the public schools, in the early 90's, a French colleague defended a male student who had turned in a paper with an obscene drawing on it, instead of answers to the test questions. She said it was "normal". I do not believe it is normal, nor do I believe it should be ignored. I felt she was back to the old cliche - she was trying to prove she was a sophisticated Frenchwoman and we were the dummies.
I said in my latest post that the French right now are really up tight about the fact that such a famous Frenchman is in the hands of puritanical American authorities. This is a bitter pill for some. But others, more realistic, are glad it happened.
I often find myself playing Dear Abbey, especially in e-mails to readers to have personal problems. I do not charge extra. This is a free service.
Correction:
(...) readers WHO have personal problems
The funny thing, Tiberge, is that DSK was arrested in NYC. I have visited that city fairly frequently and never has it struck me as a den of "puritans." Quite the opposite! DSK was not arrested in Podunk, USA! The citizens of Manhattan vote for Democrats,pride themselves on their sophistication and are famously tolerant of the most outre sexual behavior. They despise Mormons, Bush, Texas, etc. almost as much as leftist Europeans do. But it turns out that Jack Lang is willing to lump even tolerant, urbane New Yorkers together with born-again Christians from the South. Anybody who doesn't condone the rape - oh, excuse me, the "skirt-lifting" of a maid - is a prudish American.
Will somebody kindly tell me what the purpose of the Socialist party is? Because I once stupidly thought they believed in equality and the rights of the poor. But we are seeing that the Left's attitude toward the poor is no different from the attitude aristocrats held during the ancien regime. These are the new aristocrats, angry because their entitlements are being challenged.
Diane
The more we hear from DSK's piggish cronies, the more plausible it seems that he may very well be guilty!
Tiberge,
what about the halal issue? what is going on?
Hi, you have to understand that :
"Troussage de domestique", in the very old france, seignors got the right to have sex with their domestic, it wasnt considered as a crime. Sorry about my english :)
@ la belle_villoise
I do understand that. But, first of all, it was never a right, it was never legal. Secondly, there have been many exaggerations about the number of aristocrats that actually did it, and there are judicial records of those cases that were taken to court. The man did not necessarily get away with it. Finally, Monsieur J.-F. Kahn is supposed to be an egalitarian, concerned about the fate of the lower classes, not someone who closes his eyes to a crime (assuming DSK is guilty) as if it were a mere trifle.
The following is from Wikipedia's article on "droit du cuissage":
"En réalité, nul n'a jamais retrouvé mention de cet usage dans le droit positif français, ni dans les coutumes de France, ni dans les archives publiques du contentieux civil ou fiscal. Au contraire, on trouve des condamnations de seigneurs punis pour avoir abusé de leur position d'autorité pour commettre des abus sexuels."
@ la_bellevilloise
Sorry I misspelled your name.
Woah! - This is scary ... the word 'consensus' has to be defined for an American readership.
@ anonymous,
Not really. Most people know what "consensus" means. This was just a reminder. "Consensualism" ends in "ism" and is therefore close to being a reference to an ideology. "Consensus" has no such connotation, so they are not exactly synonyms.
When translating, I didn't know if I should keep the word or change it to something else. So I kept it. Note that it can refer to shared emotions, which is relevant here. The Socialists share certain feelings and beliefs and become emotionally upset when their belief system is questioned or exposed as a fraud. (This is true of most ideologies.)
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